Column 1
Mad
What caused frustration, unfairness, or avoidable friction?
Example cards
- A late scope change invalidated completed work.
- The same build failure interrupted us all week.
- Decisions changed without the team hearing why.
Mad Sad Glad makes the emotional impact of work discussable without turning the meeting into a complaint session. The columns reveal where people felt blocked, let down, or energized and help connect those feelings to events the team can influence.
Use the prompts to keep cards specific. The examples show the level of detail that makes discussion and voting useful.
Column 1
What caused frustration, unfairness, or avoidable friction?
Example cards
Column 2
What disappointed the team or represented a missed opportunity?
Example cards
Column 3
What created pride, relief, connection, or useful momentum?
Example cards
A complete path from framing the room to assigning one concrete follow-up.
Name the sprint or project being reviewed, restate the purpose of each column, and remind everyone to describe observable events.
Give everyone uninterrupted time to add one specific observation per card across every column.
Read the cards column by column and let authors add context without debating solutions yet.
Combine cards that describe the same pattern, then vote for the themes that would most improve the next iteration.
Explore causes, consequences, and tradeoffs behind the highest-voted themes while making space for dissenting evidence.
Turn the strongest insight into a small action with an owner, deadline, and signal the team can review next time.
Hide card authors and reveal contributions together when speaking openly feels risky.
Review the emotional arc of a release or project rather than a single sprint.
Use the columns to reflect on observed customer reactions while separating evidence from assumptions.
Before the retro
Use positive appreciation prompts with an established, trusting team.
It is an emotion-centered retrospective that organizes observations around frustration, disappointment, and positive experiences.
It can be when participation boundaries are clear, cards focus on events rather than people, and the facilitator does not force emotional disclosure.
Add specific situations that caused frustration or avoidable friction, such as late scope changes or repeated build failures.
Identify the condition behind a high-priority feeling and choose a small process or support change with an owner.
Open the ready-made columns, invite the team, collect observations, vote, and leave with an owned improvement.